Gwen and Blake also filed for divorces within weeks of one another, something even Gwen admitted was a strange coincidence during her interview with Ryan. A part of me feels sad that this is how celebrities handle things just to feel like they have control over their own lives. It's unknown if Stefani is accompanying the "Honey Bee" singer at the awards show, but it could cause some awkwardness if she does, considering Shelton's ex-wife Miranda Lambert is also slated to perform there. All of these reasons for keeping a romance private are perfectly valid. Lambert reportedly wasn't surprised when she first learned of the rumors that her ex-husband was seeing Stefani, as a source told E! They want to do things on their own time. They wanted to do things on their own time.